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lördag 4 april 2015

Losing Control

Re-blogged from: http://thenarcissistinyourlife.com/you-scream-narcissist-accuses-you-of-losing-control/

This post is about another blog that is very lovely to read for anyone like myself, who've suffered years of undiagnosed abuse from selfish, lying narcissists. We are quite many and we don't like it anymore. You can find teenagers revealing this in their families, and you can find 70 year olds that just realized this and finally broke free from life long relationships. It does not really matter what the age, people are waking up to these liars in hordes right now and they don't accept their behavior anymore. I'd call this waking up to the malignant people around us is the great awakening, as this is the same kind of people lying to us on all levels. Once we see them in our homes and families, we'll see them EVERYWHERE they are and we will not trust in them again. I will comment some more after this blog post:

You Scream – Narcissist Accuses You of Losing Control

Narcissistic personalities are master manipulators and control artists. Observing them from a detached angle is like viewing a master painter make fine, perfect brush strokes across his canvass. The application is flawless and effortless.
Spouses and children of narcissists are frequently ambushed by these masters of mood. They know how to read your nonverbals and record every tonal nuance of your voice. They are particularly skilled at activating your lowest emotional depths when you are feeling the most vulnerable. They intimidate and humiliate you on your core psychological issues. If you have severe abandonment issues, they threaten to leave you. If you cry easily, they work on your tender heart and watch you tear up and flow. They provoke feelings of anger and helplessness in their spouses by accusing them of lying, being duplicitous or betraying them.

They hit you over and over again until you can't hold it in any more and start screaming at them. You hear your voice reaching shrills and are shocked by its volume. When everything is quiet they stare at you coldly and say: "You have no self control. What the hell is the matter with you?" You shrink and feel so small that you want to disappear and never come back. On the heals of this attack they insinuate that you are "crazy" meaning that you have something very seriously wrong with your psyche and thinking processes. They convince you over time with these tactics that it is you who are severely disturbed. Spouses of narcissists and children of narcissists speak of the role that was given to them as the crazy, the mixed up one.

It is the narcissistic personality who is disturbed and bubbling with rage of Vesuvian proportions. When he/she accuses you of losing control, he is projecting these powerful feelings on to you. After all, in his eyes you are the inferior, the weaker one. According to his enormous ego, this individual has command of your life.
Break this cycle of abuse by first recognizing and understanding the true nature of the narcissist. This personality is deeply ingrained and very unlikely to change. The narcissist with all of his self absorption is consciously unaware of his internal psychological processes. These individuals tend not to awaken from the psychological belief that they are the perfect ones and others are at their disposal for exploitation and control and use as narcissistic supplies who will adore, obey and serve them.

Once you have this understanding your perspective changes. An essential part of this awakening is becoming self entitled to be treated with respect, empathy and caring. A program of self care must begin with the first step. This is foreign to those who are married to narcissists and children of narcissistic parents. Self care means that you get the sleep that you need, eat nourishing food that you enjoy, exercise that works for you. Spend time calming the body/mind through any number of methods: guided meditation on You Tube, cd's, etc., practicing gentle hatha yoga with emphasis on breathing through the nose. Bring beauty into your life each day in the smallest forms that make a huge difference. Enjoy each moment when you are outside and observing nature--even tiny gnats, the tweets of hummingbirds, the winds in tall grasses, the dancing of tree limbs. Trust your evolving self that is growing and becoming self sufficient and more grounded each day. Healing from the narcissist is not a straight line. It occurs over a period of time that is different for each person. Be patient and loving with yourself. You deserve it.

by Linda Martinez-Lewi, PhD 
My comments: The first thing we need to understand here is that this teasing, taunting does not work as soon as we realize that there is no point in trying to explain anything to these teasers. They don't care. They are only out to bully you and taunt you to make you cry. They feel enjoyment when they see you in tears. The more horrible they can make you feel, the more joy they will feel. So as soon as we understand this fact we know there is no reason to speak to these cruel beings again. Ever. Unless you like to be tortured, that is, as they will do anything in their power to hurt you. The best way to hurt another being is to first gain their love and trust, and to make the other person think you truly care for them, by making all sorts of promises and act like realizing these promises is very important to you. That is what such people will do, to lure you into trusting them and having good feelings about them and it's very important you have or their let downs wont be felt as bad as they will do after they've managed to sneak into your heart. So they will do anything to make you care for them and believe they care for you. They will let you help them and act really appreciative, while in the midst say something belittling about your help, to make you feel bad for not being able to do more.

All these tricks is to role you back in and get you under their influence again, if you've avoided them due to old times hurts. But these people don't like their toys to run away so they will try to role you back in again with their cheap tricks. The easier they think you are to con into loving and believing them again, the cheaper their tricks will be. They will make as little effort as possible, so you will see on the amount of effort they make, what they truly think you are worth. If you are important to them their charm will be really on, and they might do alot of tricks to con you back. But if you are a very forgiving and loving person, who don't demand much in return, you will see that they hardly make any effort atall to get you back, and still behave like you obviously appreciate the small things they seemingly do. Most such people do for others are nothing more then illusions anyways, and in many cases they let you pay and do everything, while making you believe it's their work and that nothing of it would had happened without them. Like them telling you to buy stuff, make stuff and then the mere suggestion from them you should do it, gives them all the credit for all your hard work and all money you put into it.
As long as they believe that you are under their influence and that you care for them they will suddenly turn on you and twist the truth infront of others so to raise your irritation and eventually make you angry. They do this as they can use your upset to their advantage and if you've known such people your whole life you know this already when you become an adult, and you wont react this way openly or infront of them after that. In my case I stopped very early to rage on my little sister as I already when she was four noticed something was very wrong with her and it scared me. I realized that my upset over her behavior only made her look good and me bad, despite my reactions being totally understandable considering things she did and how she behaved. Already at that age she knew that whatever horrible things she did everyone would blame me for it. Nothing was her fault and she sure knew it and intended to use this fact to harm me as much as she could. And that scared me as whenever I opposed her she'd make some absolutely horrible revenge. The one I did fight with alot was however my closest brother and he loved to torture me and tease me.

I don't really remember exactly when I realized that he only said and did what he did to torture me and that he really knew he was just bullshitting me, as he could seem so serious, like he really believed his own bullshit. He did the same with his brother and that was when I truly could hear how he did to torture this sibling. It's hard to really hear when you are yourself under attack, as you feel so insulted by the sick projections and false accusations he tossed at you, but when you are a bystander it got totally clear. I could hear what both said and that the seemingly serious brother was actually twisting the truth and turning everything backwards, to make the older brother upset. He managed to make his brother so raging that he jumped on his younger brother to beat him up. I remember many times I ran into them and screamed at my closest brother to stop teasing his brother and that he twisted everything around. I've told him this many times, but eventually I realized that no matter how many times I revealed his dirty intent of making others hurt and upset, he would never stop until he himself wanted to. And it's very clear that this person never will stop wanting to harm others.
It's this very wish that the other person truly does not want harm unto others that makes us go back to more abuse. We want so hard to believe that they are hurting just as much as we are when we're arguing, that we project unto them this care and wish to re-connect and solve our issues. It's however only our own wishes and there is none of these wishes in our tormentors. They don't suffer from our fighting, but only if we refuse to fight with them. They hate it when we refuse to fight with them, when we refuse to scream and loose control, when we wont reply to their insults and lies. They hate when we don't rage at their insane lies and backward projections, but ignores all their crazy instead. That is the only thing they hate about all of this. What they don't care a bit about is to feel sorry for the row and for hurting you. They don't feel hurt for you falling out and being angry with each other, unless they feel that you've not behaved as they wished you had. That is, that they might be hurt you didn't act out and screamed at them, giving them proof to show off to everyone how crazy you are. They wish to stand there looking confused and bewildered, when others walk in on the quarrel, pretending to be the innocent victim.

When you see through their provocations, lies and nastiness and wont show them your upset, they will have no proof that their smear about your is true. That is the smear they've already been spreading far before they actually did their latest attack on you to make you get an reaction. Many times they do all sorts of little hints and traps to make you get upset over somethings. If there is a simple solution over something you wonder about, they will taunt you by refusing to come through and make you believe one thing, so they can later on, infront of others, show their proof. That's after they've conned you into thinking they had no proof, and never replying to your questions. That's so you will look stupid and a troublemaker when you refer back to their own words, that there is no real proof. This is a good trick as when you say the very words they've told you before, and they now sigh and role their eyes and pull out the "proof", which they refused to show or mention to you in private, you will look like a hopeless case that could not accept this obvious proof. Isn't that a gem? Well, this is the way such horrible people behave to make you suffer.
All of this is so much more effective as long as you hold onto that little hope that they do care for you. As soon as you get rid of that illusion they loose this upper hand. As soon as you stop trusting that they do wish you well, that they do want to do their best, that's when you wont fall for these evil tricks anymore. That's when you realize that all they do is setting traps and trying to make you look bad infront of others. And that's when you understand that you can never have anything more to do with these people, as everyone connected to them will be fooled into believing that you are friends with these liars, which you by now certainly are not. But as long as everyone else believe you are, they can keep doing their smear about you, so you must make it really clear to everyone that these people have nothing to do with you anymore. And you must also make clear that anyone trying to make you accept these horrible people as your friends again are violating your right to be left alone from nasty people wishing you ill. Like I said bullies like this will try to con you back with the least effort needed, so they can do you harm again, as your pain is very joyous to these devils.

The more years you've been forgiving to them the less effort they will make to get you back and at the end you will notice that they don't do anything at all, but keep up trying to harm you. That is always the end result of these deceivers mistreatment of others. That's when they've realized that you wont play their hurt games anymore and wont reply in angry outburst on their twisted lies anymore. When they see how you walk away, after they refused to stop lying and making up shit, they will start a huge smear campaign about you and try to pull as many in on their illusions about you. If not all of them are in on getting rid of you a few of their mob might try with as little effort as possible to make you come back and accept their hurtful and mean behavior. If one of the bullies does this she or he will however never tell you anything that happened to you actually did, but she or he will ask you to get over something else. That is the gas-lighting to make you feel stupid for being angry. They do this to make you forget the real argument and feel so stupid you come back and as long as you are under their enchantment this trick might work, but as long as you are thinking for yourself it wont.
I do believe that these people do think you've forgotten and forgiven all the shit they've done to you, but the truth is that you just got tired of being upset and decided to move on. You did also, back then, believe they were as sorry as you were and when they come back and pretend all is fine, you did believe they did this cause they felt really bad. But when the final little news flash lands into your consciousness, you truly realize that they never did this cause they were as sorry as you were, but to show that it didn't matter. All your upset and crying didn't matter to them. That they've stolen, lied or whatever they've done, it did not matter as you now are still their friend. So that is what this means, not that they are sorry. Remember that they never ever talk about what happened and if you try to bring it up, things immediately got really ugly. Remember that you were told that you were either imagining things, as what happened didn't, or you were told that you were obsessing over the same things and never could let go of anything. Whatever you were told you were never told the truth or that they acknowledged what had happened and that it was a hurtful thing that had occured.

There is very screwed sociopaths that might acknowledge this last part, about how hurtful it was, but they will make it out like as you are all equally guilty, despite they were the only ones saying lies and hurtful comments, and despite you only stating the truth and defending yourself against their horrible lies. These kind of people are the most dangerous as they will make everyone in your surroundings think the quarrel was between two equal people, doing equal harm to each other. The truth is the opposite as that person had a horde of bullies on their side and all of these people might had been attacking an innocent, lonely person. This is how bullies behave, making the one they bully seem equally guilty. It's a very hurtful thing for the one being attacked as they had all the right to defend themselves and are then accused for standing up for themselves, truth and justice, while the liar sits there and pretends to be hurt. Isn't that twisted to watch, the obvious liar pretending to be hurt when the one lied about defends themselves? It's so very annoying indeed.

Luna IngRuna - Kärlekens Cirkel

Goddess Myths

At last I've come to my last red site - the sixth. Recently it was my fifth red site, but now it's the last. However, don't get confused by me calling this site a red site, with that the design actually is red on the site. It's more green and brown, then red. When I call sites red it's cause they are under the Red Pill category and are dealing with deeper secrets. This last one is the most secret of them all, obviously, and is straight out dealing with the occult, the hidden and what has been kept a secret. You will also find out about our old gods and goddesses that my ancestors fought and died for to keep, while others saw the chance to get ahead and betrayed the old ways and joined the new church instead. Therefore they fought on both sides, while the later pagan sainted Sigrid fought for the old ways, being the queen of the Eastern Realms, on the other side in the West was the king on the Romans side. There is no other way to say this, but he seemed to have been a true shithead and betrayed the others and thanks to that the pagans had to both fight their kin in the west, while fighting the hordes from the south. You can visit my site here - Goddess Myths.

The most famous Asir gods and goddesses have their own webpages, and there is also a page listing many more. It's been a long time since it's updated, but there are a few nice items still. These Gods and Goddesses however were living people with their blood traced back to those that are not humans. The Nordics came here about 3000 years ago, which is about the same time as the ruling family in Sumer left that place. This is not the only connection, but they've found a DNA connection too. It's said that Sumer were hit by a Black Death like plague at that time and more then half of the population died, if not more. The rulers were blamed, as they were supposingly choosen by the Gods to rule, and were also of the bloodline of the Gods. When so many people died it's said that the people considered that the rulers had fallen out of grace, that the Gods did not support them anymore, so they had to leave. The interesting thing is that as Sumer seems to have fallen due to a massive plague, so did the Roman Empire totally transform after a plague. Another interesting matter is that it's said that a huge meteorite hit Sumer shortly before the plague, which is something many have commented on, how these plagues seem to follow after a meteorite hit.
So about 1500 years after Sumer vanished, or rather the rulers of that land vanished as the land is still there, a similar plague hit Rome and caused a severe crisis there. Shortly after that next plague, surely causing enormous amounts of death and suffering, the Catholic Church came to be, and then all those wars and the attacks that reached the Nordic countries. Just like the Scots built a big wall to defend against these raving murderers, so did the Goths of the north. There was a huge wall built to separate northern Europe from the south as the Roman hords went into the Gothic countries and pillaged and murdered thousands of thousands of innocent people. It was after one of those pillages, where they'd slaughtered thousands of people in a big village that the idea came to strike back. This is the origin of the Lindisfarne attack, and it's nothing like that stupid television program makes it out to be. The vikings knew very well there was a very big and important settlement by the Roman Church, filled with soldiers and of course monks as there was a monestry. They didn't go look for land and just happened to arrive at this little cute monastery, which that stupid program says. No, they went there to crush their enemies like any nation would that was in war with a fierceful and brutal enemy.

Remember, that the Catholic Church in reality was just an evolution of the Roman Empire, which used war as a major tactic. This new tactic by using the image of innocence and victim was a way to take away the guilt of the same blood shed the Empire had caused. Nothing had changed really, only the propaganda. Now they were holy men out on a holy war for the innocent sacrifice of Jesus Christ. What a con! Also, remember that the Goths were the people that founded England, and had intermarried and defended Mercia for hundreds of years together with their Gaelics friends. Actually, if you ask me the Gaelics and the Goths both originate from the same source and are really not that different, but only moved a little differently. The Gaelics became that when they arrived to the British Ilses and what is told is that they came there from Scytia actually. Their Queen is said to have been Scota, the daughter of Akhenaton and Nephertite and her King had been a prince of Scytia who became King of Iberia, or Spain. He is the guy that gave name to the word military, most likely as he was a very warring type of guy. Scytia is the same place as much later was Khazar, which is the source of the eastern jews, who in no way are semites, like arabs are.
So the myth is that the prince of Scytia, which thousands years later became Khazar and converted to judaism to be able to use interest and not have to pay to either Rome, nore Bagdad, married the Egypt princess Scota and went and conquered Iberia, which is the penisula Spain is on, and then he - Militus - died and his sons and wife went to conquer places like Ireland and Scotland, which got it's name from Scota, of course. Scota died and are buried in Tara, where they've found the exact same necklace as they've found in Egypt, in Thutakamon's grave, who's a son of Akhenaton and Nephertite. So that's more or less the myth. For awhile also Ireland had a name after this Scota chick, but I don't remember what that was right now. Ireland has had many names and I don't remember what the vikings called the island, nore what Tuta de Danan called it. But I remember that it's said that the gaelic language where created by these people conquering Ireland from Tuta de Danan. Another thing I remember is that Nephertite's grandparents were from Sumer, so hence there is all these connections back to these people, which later on is said to be related to the Goths, and of course the vikings.

So no way the vikings were these stupid wildlings that they are portraited as now, but they were travelers and knew how to go to west and east, south and north. They knew the way back to Sumer, or Iraq. They knew how to travel to the Americas, and the Egypts traveled to Australia. And what about the redhead Phonecians? Why is their letters exactly the same from beginning to end as the runes? Yes, if you look at the meaning of each letter they are the same. And the Kazarian rulers are said to have been redhead. This land lies by the Crimerian, where the crimerian goths lived. Another name that popes up there are the Tauries, or the "earthlings" if you watch television programs like STG1. Perhaps cause they came from the Tauri system? There is this very old and big star called Aldebaran, which in reality is the star Alpha Tauri, and it's the big red eye in the starsign of the Bull. So now do you see the reason the bull is so celebrated in so many cultures? In my opinion all these people are the same and related, but they lived in different areas and inter-married. That this is the reason the vikings married with the irish, the english and so on.
By letting us think nothing is inter-connected we don't see the obvious, that it is connected. These are the same families and people and they are related, though they have mixed in with people wherever they've lived so on a surface they might look a bit different after awhile, but to start with I would suggest they were all very much alike. I think this is the reason there are the same kind of constructs all over the planet. There were many more in the old times, but many have been destroyed as they were the same in America as you find here. Also the objects found there were too much like what are found here, so I think it needed to be covered up to make the fairytale about how this continent was "found". It was always there and those knowing about it always did and were there many times and even lived there and interbred with the natives, who really are the same people as all the rest you find around the globe, living in the far north. It's the same people as the natives in my own country, and the same people that live in Siberia that are native there. So they lived all around the globe and they were asian. They were living here when the Goths arrived 3000 years ago, and they are still here.

A thought I've had is that people move around and it can go very fast when it happens. So the stories about white people living in Japan long ago, before those that live there now, might be true, just like the stories of the whites living in other places, where they are not supposed to have lived according to mainstream history. Like in America, where there are such stories and there were tribes where they lived in longhuts and some had blonder hair and blue eyes. These traits are very easily breeded out of a group of people, so to have blond people with blue eyes will soon be a very rare things in only 200 years of interbreeding with asian, blacks or any of these more dominant races. That's a fact. You take a blond, blue eyed girl and get her together with a really black guy and their children will all have very dark skins and eyes. There will not be one trace of the blond girl in any of her children and all will look like their dad. If you keep breeding these children with other children like them you might get 25% blue eyed, but still very coloured, children. You might get a few with a little lighter hair, more straight hair, but as soon as you interbreed them with totally black people all these things are all gone very rapidly.
This is the reason there are so many whites scared of being breeded out of this planet, so in 200 years there will be no more Nordics. You know, the true blonds with these clear blue eyes. This might be the reason why people in the ancient times tried to interbreed mostly within the same kind of groups, cause of some scare of loosing a specific look. Now it's very hip to mingle, and it's true that if you, as a breeder of any kind, don't take care of the weaker looks they will disappear and you will no longer have any of these kinds of looks anymore. Like the white cats, which would totally disappear if people wasn't so eager to breed on these cats. White cats would barely make it as tougher kinds do. They are often deaf and they seem to also be more fragile in their health. Many totally hearing white cats I've known have still been more inclined to get harmed when let out, running free, then others seems to. But it might just had been a fluke, but considering how few white cats there are, I must say they do seem to live very short lives. So by likening the very pale human races with the white cats, I am not really meaning that whites are weaker, but the whiteness, the blondness, the blue eyes are the weaker DNA, and the DNA of coloured skin, dark hair and brown eyes are dominating genes.

So it's the genes of the darker races that are dominating, and in that way stronger, though as a person this might not be true. A white person does not need to be weaker then any other, is what I want to say, it's just that this planet seems to have favored some DNA and not others. This is due to the conditions of the planet, I would guess. That you are much better off with a darker skin, as the sun can burn pretty hard on most places. The rest I don't really understand the reason of, like what is better with brown eyes then blue. Perhaps it's due to the sun too, as there was this boy in China that could see in the dark, and could not stand the sunlight, and he was born with bright blue eyes. So maybe the blue eyes are better off in dark places, like the Nordic countries in the winter? And perhaps in a planet with a weaker sun, a darker sun? Just a thought. As there are pyramids both on Earth, on the Moon and even on Mars, one might consider that whoever came here long ago, changed the beings on this planet into humans, as there have been many other races here then humans that surely were very human like and had nothing to do with apes. And these people might had come from a darker world, like perhaps a red star system, like Aldebaran.
Lets talk about the gifts I've shown so far and leave my thoughts about all these myths and stories for awhile. The top gift of the lovely blond maiden was made using a tutorial, while the second one of Odin was made all by myself, using a graphic. The third and forth gifts are both made from lovely tutorials and the fifth gift is a lady I made from a tutorial, with a frame I've made. The pretty girl above is from a frame tutorial, just like all the ones you see below. Most of them are symbolizing the goddess, so therefore all the beautiful girls. I now wish to talk about more modern myths, as those ruling us right now are big on creating confusion and myths. They make false flags and make up stories using their mediums to enchanted us with. Their tales are really convincing and they are repeated many times, as you need to tell a tale atleast three times to make it magically true. This it the reason they tell their stories so many times, as if they'd only told their lies one time we'd not really believe them. What they do tell us one time is the truth. So listen carefully what they only tell you one time, as that is the truth. 

The reason they only tell us the truth one time is cause those ruling us now are very evil and this very destructive energy is not allowed to do what they do, unless they get our consent. By letting us know and us not reacting and doing anything against their intentions, we give our consent. It's a very dirty trick, but that is how they do it. Then they will use all their parlor tricks they got up their sleeves to fool us, which is allowed as they've always first told the truth. They will bewilder us with their images, and stories, and crying people. They will point with their whole hands and tell us their tales. All lies, or twisted truths. They do use truth when it's useful, but twists it slightly. This is how they've done so many things that it's even hard to remember and recollect even the many I've figured out or heard about. But the lies and deceptions go so deep that sometimes it's hard to know where the lies end and the truth begins. It's hard cause they are so good at double lies and triple deceptions. One of the major ones in this millenia is of course the events going down in 2001. In my opinion all of that was a huge scam, a big magic trick, and they made three skyscrapers vanish using their own tech, while blaming all sorts of other reasons.
I don't like to talk about these events as I figured them out long ago and it's boring to me to see how many are still running around in the deceptors wheel of lies and double lies. They love to make us do that, run around in circles and argue with each other. So they use people to put us freethinkers in check and you will know when you are thinking "wrong" as someone will contact you and tell you to stop thinking these thoughts. That's when you are guilt tripped for thinking freely and told you are a bad person for having own thoughts, and that you are all sorts of bad things. You might be told to be gullible, or mean, or just ruining it for all humans on this planet, cause you think your own thoughts, instead of some group, which in most likelyhood was set up by the perpetrators themselves, to rear in everyone who starts to question things going on here on planet Earth. These groups are called things referring to "truth", as that is what freethinkers are looking for. We are all looking for the truth, so by calling these groups by that word we are supposed to go there and look. And when there we are told to stop looking for the truth and follow the dogma of the group, which forbids you to think further, as thinking will ruin things for us all.

No, it's not thinking freely that will ruin it for us all, and it's this very fight against all freethinkers that is the conflict that destroys us. It's those very people that blame us for fighting, that is the ones that are fighting. They are fighting against freethinking, against revelations of the occult, the secrets, the hidden truths, and they want to silence the voice of the many and only allow a few chosen voices. That is not freedom and it's not the best for us all. It's the best for the perpetrators of the lies and deceptions of this world, if we are not allowed to reveal them. This principle goes with any questioning and search for the truth, in any area. That some people will work against this and help out to stop your quest. Most will do it as people are under severe group think, and they are needy of leaders and they don't believe in themselves, so they need someone to follow and believe in instead. They are looking for saviors, so they see freethinkers as a danger, as they are not their chosen Messiah. Actually there is a very small amount of people that knowingly do this destruction of truth on this planet, as 99% that does it don't even understand what they are doing.
The above group think is the same as when people that don't do anything when they see a person being mistreated and smeared as they see that everyone else seem to agree with this. They are the enablers of the wrongdoings as they don't take responsibility for their own thinking and instead they hang out and admire some leader, whom they trust to save them. This is what the enablers of a bully do too. They believe that by agreeing with all the shit the bully does and says they will themselves become uplifted in the hierarchy and gain some sort of award for their loyalty. What most likely will happen is instead that they will one day themselves do something that does not fit the bully and then become the target of this ruthless person themselves. It's like the old saying about how when you don't stand up for others rights, there might be noone left to stand up for yours, the day they come for you. So beware of who you sacrifice on the way up the ladder, as one day you might be on your way down and you don't want to meet those you've thread on, when falling down. Why do you think they say that we should treat others like we'd liked to be treated ourselves? As that is Karma in real life.

One thing that the liars also like to do is to make worse and worse lies, the more they notice that others just believe whatever shit they put out there. It's cause they deep down want to be revealed. They really want us to see their lies and not believe them. You might think they don't, but that's the truth that they want to be stopped and they want that people will see what horrible liars they really are. That's the reason they con us so much, as they hope that the worse they con and lies we surely must react, but somehow most people still don't. Whenever they manage to con and be believed by all their enablers, they both feel a high due to their great ability to fool people, but deep down they feel sick. That's the reason they will target their enablers too later on and sacrifice each and everyone that's been in their corner. They will not help those that loyally supported them, as at one point they will punish them severely. Most people don't matter to them, so they don't care that they are punished and they even feel deep contempt for anyone helping them out, either fully knowing they are helping liars or just willfully being ignorant. That is the reason behind the contempt the true perpetrators always feel for their enablers.
The reason I know this is cause this world is fractal, so all going on in the smaller perspectives, in private relationships, will be going on on a greater scale in how people are being used and fooled. So by studying personal relationships, school yard bullying, sibling rivalry and all sorts of connections with other humans, you will notice how the liars among us react to those willfully helping them out to torment their innocent targets. They don't admire those licking their butts. They feel deep contempt for them. The only way to treat a bully is to stand your ground and speak the truth. When you see someone being mistreated you stand by their side, so they are no more alone. This is the only way, as by joining the bully train you are judging yourself to be a target and you might not be as lucky as a truly innocent target will be. A guilty target will most likely get it much worse as the amount of shit that can be used against a guilty person is automatically so much more. It's hard to find shit to use on someone innocent, so the bully will rely solely on lies and framing. Which they of course if very good at. But then imagine how easy it is to ruin the life of a person they know shit about, and then frame them with ten times worse.

Now and then the perpetrators behind alot of this worlds horrors need to give the pretense there is some kind of justice in this world. They need that to make people more happy. So they will then make a huge scandal and it will be all over the news, where they hang out some famous person who they know alot of shit about. This is what happens on the bigger scale, but it will happen also in families and smaller groups. When this happen it's my opinion that the bully will also use this event to frame alot of their own doings onto their former enabler. Remember that many enablers truly believe themselves to be good people, and they don't understand that they have been enabling evil people in their lies and abuse of innocent others. They truly think that these poor souls deserved all the mistreatment, but the reason they believed this is cause they chose to not bother to find out the truth and only listen to the words of the bully. This is how it's done - to both feel good about yourself and at the same time hurt someone else. You only fool yourself by listening to tales told by liars. This is the reason why I'm both very angry at such enablers, while also pitying them as they truly want to have faith in what they believe in. But it's all lies. 
I think the deep down problem here is that too many people are not connected on a spiritual level with others, so they chose to trust seemingly "trustworthy" people to tell them what to think about others. If they'd instead been directly connected to the others true souls they'd known them and not been fooled by tales. Remember that it's unwise to listen to gossip and if you think about it almost everything today is just that - gossip. The seemingly most upstanding, clever and loved people I know personally, are the ones that work the hardest on their images, while telling bad things about others all the time. If you listen carefully on what they tell about people connected to them, you will soon hear how they slightly put down others, and rise up themselves. So their uprightness is just a trick, an illusion, where they step on others to make themselves out as the good guys. They will brag about the slightest little thing they've done, and drag with others to help them tell how fantastic they are. The very same people helping them, admiring them, will they then step on, behind their backs! So they will walk all over people close to them, to make themselves look better. 

Everyone will seemingly lift them up, talk well about them, while some of those close by them that is not ever bragging about themselves will be talked ill about by these braggers. So noone is talking good about these humble people. Not cause they are misbehaving, but cause they are humble about their own deeds and rather lift others up. You see now how the liars use humble people. They con them to brag about them to others, and then they stab them in the back by lying about them. They tell people that the humble person is a failure, lazy, selfish, greedy, or whatever ill tale they wish. Alot of the nice things they say about themselves are actually stories they've stolen from their humble friends! They will listen to your stories, look bored and then steel it. If you later on tell others the same tale you will find out you've stolen the story from the bragger! Yes, that's something very common that the liars steel their friends nice stories and make them theirs, and then nobody believe the person actually owning the story, when they happen to mention it. People believe the first thing they hear, and they believe the story belongs to the person first telling it.

Luna IngRuna - Circle of Love